31 5 / 2012
Truth about me: I think that “With A Little Help From My Friends” by Joe Cocker is not a good cover. It’s totally overrated.
There. Said it.
31 5 / 2012
Military mom ‘proud’ of breast-feeding in uniform, despite criticism
National pride, or disgrace? A photo gone viral of two servicewomen breast-feeding their children while in uniform has added a new layer to the debate over nursing in public.If you think this is a “disgrace”, just quit following me now.
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Where the fuck are your hats? You are outside, you should be wearing your fucking hats. It has nothing to do with your ability to breast feed, put on your fucking hats.
That said, the military is very…pro-baby. Like to the point that it’s considered totally cool for your husband’s NCO to ask you when you’re planning on having babies, and then “advise” you to do it before you are no longer attached to the military. Unless there’s some reg hangups, it’s probably not a huge deal for them and their careers.
They defend your country AND procreate. No disgrace there. Be proud of women like these, ‘murica!
(via perfectwrongturn)
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22 5 / 2012
uh huh
You know what? I can’t even click on the little heart to say I like this, because I don’t like it.
Because it’s true.
And I hate that it’s true.
*sigh*
Fuck yes.
(Source: thefatboylarry)
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21 5 / 2012
ELEONORA DI TOLEDO’S FUNERAL DRESS, EARLY 1560s
Portrait of Eleonora di Toledo, variant of Bronzino’s 1560 portrait of her
Stunning. Just stunning.
Funeral dress? But… why… how… What?
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21 5 / 2012
A nice, but devious guy, living in NYC: About "Under 18"
I was once too curious why people under 18 can’t be on blogs like mine. I trolled Tumblr’s terms of use and found nothing specific. However the truth of why people under 18 shouldn’t be on our blogs is it isn’t specifically illegal, BUT what could be implied by following is even worse.
If we as…
By German law, the Tumblr Terms Of Use would be rather irrelevant. The owner of the blog is the publisher, and the publisher must make sure that adult content cannot be accessed by underage viewers.
Which poses heavy technical problems.
If you go by the book, you’d need to close down your tumblr, and just let persons watch it who clearly personally identified themselves as being of age.
Your post makes it almost sound too easy.
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21 5 / 2012
1:33 a.m.
The baby’s monitor is starting to transmit. I am STILL awake, Junior is sleeping AGAIN… Time for the wife to get up and feed the baby?
21 5 / 2012
and another thing that’s in my head
I’ve started dropping pieces of information about what’s troubling me with my family. I’m thinking of starting a series of posts elaborating deeply on the fam-damn-ily issues. Maybe it could help me, letting it all out. Maybe not. Because issues might be surfacing that I’m not ready to let surface yet.
What would you suggest?
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21 5 / 2012
1:15 a.m.
That was quick. But I had tea and cough syrup prepared. He’s been sick for a few days now, I hope this night will be better than the last ones.
Where was I? Bathing the baby. Something strange is happening since she was born.
I am not prude. I run around the house naked. The sex life with my wife is wild and adventurous. I read online… oh sorry, you know that one. And if you follow the pics I posted, you might know a little bit about me.
Some time ago I read a thread on parenting.com where one father freaked out at the thought of sitting naked in a bathtub with his kids. It’s inconceivable (hehe) to me to wear a bathing suit in my own tub, no matter who’s in there with me.
But from the moment the baby was born, I viewed one thing in a whole new light: The vulva.
I’m not freaked out by what I saw happening to my wife - cuts and stitches and blood and all. I’m very eager for her to become post-postnatal so we can fool around again.
I’m just writing this at it leaves my mind, there’s now intention of structure. I’ll soon be at the bathing-point.
I’ve begun to view porn in a different light. I didn’t mind hairy vulvas before, and I didn’t mind shaved ones. I liked both. And I like my wife both shaved and hairy.
But I cannot watch porn or porn photos with shaved vulvas right now. It feels… strange.
And today, while I was bathing the baby, I had to clean all of her creases and wrinkles. Which babies just have. I also had to clean her vulva. I had no problem washing her neck, her arms, her legs, her buttocks, her hands, her hair (felt like she liked me washing her hair)… but I had a very hard time cleaning her vulva.
It was not at all a sexual situation or disturbing sexual feeling. Nothing like that. I felt as if I was crossing a border which I am not supposed to cross.
That’s gotta be nonsense, right? My wife cleans my sons penis when she is bathing him. Or when they are bathing together - in the nude. We even sat in a kddie pool together naked.
It’s just… fear, I believe… yes, fear, of hurting and violating her.
Why do I feel a difference there?
My wife says, I shouldn’t worry and if I had a problem with it, she’d do it next time we have to. So there’s no pressure or anything.
I just felt guilty.
Dear moms and dads: What did you do?
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21 5 / 2012
1 a.m.
Tired, but can’t sleep. Bored, and the Internet is not fun at this time of day. Maybe an episode of MASH? Gotta pick one where Winchester is lead, I love that character.
Meanwhile;
I bathed the baby today. Alone, on my own. Without my wife.„,
Aah. Junior is waking up, I have something to do. Talk to you later!